Nihayet bir maratonun daha sonuna geldik; ortaokul bitti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u0131z\u0131m, daha yolun en ba\u015f\u0131nda, hayat\u0131n as\u0131l ritmiyle yeni yeni tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Tabii bu ge\u00e7i\u015fi, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn en k\u0131r\u0131lgan ergenlik d\u00f6neminde s\u0131rt\u0131na y\u00fcklenen o me\u015fhur y\u00fckle, LGS ile ta\u00e7land\u0131rd\u0131k (!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 gereksiz bir rekabetin i\u00e7ine iten, erkenden strese bo\u011fan o s\u0131nav\u0131 da bir \u015fekilde atlatt\u0131k i\u015fte. Bizim ad\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7ok heyecanl\u0131 ama \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun ki y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fczde tebess\u00fcmle geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ancak s\u0131nav\u0131n bitmesiyle, e\u011fitim sekt\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcn o bildik “pazarlama” \u00e7arklar\u0131 hemen d\u00f6nmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eimdilerde \u00f6zel okullar adeta s\u0131raya girdi. Telefon ard\u0131 arkas\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Merak etmeyin; bizi merak ettiklerinden, halimizi hat\u0131r\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sormak istediklerinden de\u011fil elbette. Derin bir ekonomik krizin g\u00f6lgesinde hayatta kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bu \u00fclkede, “Bu dar bo\u011fazda nas\u0131l ge\u00e7iniyorsunuz, bir derdiniz var m\u0131?” diye soran zaten yok. Ama konu potansiyel bir “m\u00fc\u015fteri” bulmaya gelince, nezaket telefonlar\u0131 yar\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn yine o telefonlardan biri \u00e7ald\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kar\u015f\u0131daki ses, ezberletilmi\u015f profesyonel bir nezaketle tekliflerini s\u0131ralarken, telefonu kapatmad\u0131m. Sab\u0131rla ve \u00e7izgimi bozmadan dinledim. \u00dcstelik bu konu\u015fmay\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131ma da dinlettim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendi gelece\u011fi hakk\u0131nda karar\u0131 o verecek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sistem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fadursun, hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7eklerini erken ya\u015fta g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcsleyen \u00e7ocuklar bazen bizden daha olgun kararlar verebiliyor. Telefon kapand\u0131ktan sonra k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n bana d\u00f6n\u00fcp, \u201cAnne, ger\u00e7ekten ne gerek var?\u201d<\/strong> deyi\u015fi, benim i\u00e7in s\u0131nav sonucundan \u00e7ok daha k\u0131ymetliydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sekt\u00f6r\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u00fc rakamlarda ve kay\u0131tlarda olabilir; ama bizim g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz, ayaklar\u0131 yere basan ve ne istedi\u011fini bilen evlatlar yeti\u015ftirmekte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n En b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131 da belki de budur. Ho\u015f geldin yeni hayat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nihayet bir maratonun daha sonuna geldik; ortaokul bitti. K\u0131z\u0131m, daha yolun en ba\u015f\u0131nda, hayat\u0131n as\u0131l ritmiyle yeni yeni tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Tabii bu ge\u00e7i\u015fi, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn en k\u0131r\u0131lgan ergenlik d\u00f6neminde s\u0131rt\u0131na y\u00fcklenen o me\u015fhur y\u00fckle, LGS ile ta\u00e7land\u0131rd\u0131k (!). \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 gereksiz bir rekabetin i\u00e7ine iten, erkenden strese bo\u011fan o s\u0131nav\u0131 da bir \u015fekilde atlatt\u0131k i\u015fte. Bizim ad\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7ok […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2081,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"views":8,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2080"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2082,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2080\/revisions\/2082"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mavikentajans.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}